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Postpartum Anxiety at Night: Why It Happens and What Helps
If you notice your anxiety ramping up in the late afternoon or evening after having a baby, you are not alone - and it's a really common experience. For many new moms, anxiety doesn’t peak during the chaos of the day. Instead, it sneaks in quietly as the sun starts to set. The house gets dimmer. The day winds down. And suddenly, your body feels on edge, bracing for the night ahead. The experience of having postpartum anxiety at night is so common that many moms refer to it as

Blaire Melius
Jan 85 min read


EMDR for Moms: Heal Stressful Memories and Find Peace After Baby
Motherhood is the coolest journey - but it's also one that can come with a lot of ups and downs, twists and turns, and unexpected challenges. For so many new moms, stress, anxiety, and overwhelming and/or traumatic memories from pregnancy, birth, or early parenting can linger - long after the initial events have passed. And these memories? They can trigger intense emotional reactions, interfere with daily functioning, and even affect the bond with your baby. Eye Movement Des

Blaire Melius
Nov 19, 20254 min read


5 Life-Changing Parenting Books Every Mom Should Read
As a therapist who works with moms, I know firsthand how overwhelming it feels to parent in today’s world. There’s SO much advice - some...

Blaire Melius
Sep 18, 20253 min read


How to Survive Daycare Separation Anxiety: 5 Lessons for Moms
I'll never forget my daughter's first day of daycare. It totally wrecked me. I thought I was abandoning my child, that I was a bad mom,...

Blaire Melius
Aug 15, 20255 min read


Is It Normal Mom Worry or Postpartum Anxiety? Here’s How to Tell the Difference
Let's be real - motherhood can be full of worrying. And as a new mom, it’s completely normal to feel concerned about your baby’s health,...

Blaire Melius
Aug 4, 20253 min read


How to Find a Postpartum Therapist in Massachusetts (Without Adding More to Your Mental Load)
You’re googling therapy while holding a baby. Or maybe you’re crying in the bathroom between feedings, wondering why this feels so heavy....

Blaire Melius
Jul 10, 20253 min read


Why Am I So Angry After Having a Baby? Understanding Postpartum Rage
Imagine you plug too many appliances into one outlet. A phone charger, a lamp, a space heater, a coffee maker. At first, the outlet seems...

Blaire Melius
Jul 2, 20255 min read


The Fourth Trimester: 10 Must-Know Truths for Every New Mom
If you're a new mom, you’ve probably heard about the “fourth trimester” — those first three months after birth that no one really...

Blaire Melius
Jun 27, 20255 min read


What No One Tells You About Going From One to Two Kids
Everyone tells you it’s hard, but what they don’t say is that it changes you all over again. Going from one baby to two doesn’t just...

Blaire Melius
May 29, 20257 min read


Navigating the Identity Shift in Motherhood: How to Reconnect with Yourself After Baby
Becoming a mom is one of the most profound changes a person can experience. It transforms your world, your priorities, and—whether you’re...

Blaire Melius
Apr 3, 20256 min read


How to Stop Overthinking as a New Mom: 7 Simple Strategies from a Therapist
Overthinking as a new mom? You're NOT alone. If your brain feels like it’s running a 24/7 Google search on everything from "is my baby...

Blaire Melius
Feb 21, 20254 min read


Ending Maternity Leave: How to Cope with the Guilt and Anxiety As You Return to Work
You knew this day was coming, but somehow, it still doesn’t feel real. One minute, you’re rocking your baby in the middle of the night,...

Blaire Melius
Feb 19, 20255 min read


Why Postpartum Feels Like a Paradox: The Opposite Emotions You Might Face
Postpartum is weird. One minute, you're staring at your baby, completely in awe that you created this tiny human. The next, you're crying...

Blaire Melius
Feb 15, 20255 min read


Postpartum Rage: Why You Feel So Angry and What Helps
Most people expect postpartum emotions to include exhaustion, sadness, or anxiety—but what about rage? If you find yourself snapping over...

Blaire Melius
Feb 5, 20254 min read


How to Support a Friend Struggling with Postpartum Anxiety
Becoming a mom is often painted as this magical, blissful experience, right? But for some, it’s not all rainbows and baby snuggles....

Blaire Melius
Jan 16, 20255 min read


5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Postpartum
Bringing a baby into the world is one of the most incredible and life-changing experiences—but let’s be real, it can also be completely...

Blaire Melius
Jan 15, 20254 min read


Postpartum and Missing Your Old Life?
Bringing a new baby into the world is one of the most life-changing experiences you might go through. But what no one warns you about is...

Blaire Melius
Nov 7, 20244 min read


5 Do's and Dont's for Postpartum Anxiety
Navigating Postpartum Anxiety: Essential Do's and Don'ts for New Moms Becoming a mom is one of life's most transformative experiences,...

Blaire Melius
Sep 4, 20245 min read


How to Incorporate Cognitive Restructuring into Your Postpartum Routine: Therapy Techniques for Challenging Negative Thoughts
Trust me, I get it. The postpartum period can be a total whirlwind of emotions and adjustments. And for so many new moms, navigating...

Blaire Melius
Aug 20, 20242 min read


5 Coping Strategies for Postpartum Anxiety
If you found yourself googling for "Coping Strategies for Postpartum Anxiety" and feeling frustrated at the lack of practical, helpful...

Blaire Melius
Jul 7, 20242 min read
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